While we live in a world that tells us to celebrate ourselves fully, to embrace ourselves without question, and there is truth in that, in the world of comedy I have one response - ha! Don't let anyone tell you that your looks or age or race don't matter in comedy. Because they do. It's not just a "be funny" business. Anyone who broke free of the open mic circuit knows that on the other side is the political game. The "casting" of comedy shows and festivals, where the quotas are met, and the frustrating reality hits that they only need one of you, depending on your tribe or group. One lady. One senior citizen. One younger woman. One Asian. One Black person. One Middle Eastern. One fat guy. But then 4-5 mid looking white men named Lenny or Jake. If you think your looks don't translate to bookings, then you are very much mistaken.
The Silent Minority While every other group sees the bias in their demographic, one group that gets a short end of the stick are the good looking comics. No, really. Go look at a comedy flyer. Odds are it's mostly frumpy, fugly folks. It's not a lot of Sydney Sweeney's either. Go look at the lineups at the big clubs. Do you see a lot of 9's or 10's performing? No. Is it because attractive people aren't funny? We know that's not true. In fact. I would say being attractive helps immensely in the beginning, as their shiny faces help distract from the frump on the rest of the flyer. But what was a ladder in the beginning, sadly becomes a crutch down the road. Because most attractive comics face harassment and expectations that many comics never face. Humor is a Great Equalizer in the Arts Whenever they do a study about what women want in a man, routinely, a sense of humor tops the list. Albert Brooks once scoffed at that stat, stating, "I'm pretty sure Fabio does better with women that Gilbert Gottfried." It's a good point, and probably true, but women still swear that they want a man to make them laugh. In response to this claim, pundits have argued that women tend to find cute boys funnier because when nervous around them, they laugh. So it's not that "Chad" is inherently funny, but those dimples make a woman swoon. Meanwhile, men traditionally could care less if a woman is funny. Sorry, ladies. No guy ever thought that she was so funny, she must be "wifed up" before it is too late. But it is very important women find HIM funny. Even a guy with nothing but dad jokes, puns, and stolen Tim Allen stories wants her to laugh at him. Men view humor as their greatest weapon to fight off good looking men in the dating pool. And the greatest insecurity a "funny guy" can feel is when his girlfriend or wife laugh at other men's jokes. In fact, the worst date a guy could take a woman on is going to watch funny male comedians. Watching their girl roll over in laughter is worse than catching them in bed with another guy...it hyperbolic theory. When he asks, "what that mouth do?" He's hoping she doesn't say, "Laugh at Matt Rife." This is why men have had to develop some type of personality. Because when she's giggling at pretty boy nonsense, his only comeback is; "But I'm actually funny." Women develop a sense of humor as a way to combat chauvinistic behaviors. It's their way to fight the patriarchy. If anything, the Barbie movie literally proved that theory. It's a way to become "equal" in the eyes of men. If anything, men find a woman who makes more money or funnier than them as a threat. I know that sounds weird, but we all know its true. What Makes a Person Funny? Growing up, extroverts are seen as the funny guys. Think about high school. The stoner who gets drunk at parties and dances on tables. The wild man. That is usually the introduction to what is funny. In fact, the most popular comics are those archetypes. Jim Carrey. Robin Williams. Chris Farley. It's a the clown - an over the top character on speed. The fat guy. The lanky guy. The sweaty guy. Not the attractive guy. It is how they separate themselves from the pack. It's a type of vulnerability that allows them to be free, whereas many attractive people feel the need to dress, stand, fashion themselves in a way others see as a mask. So when the goofy dudes transition to Hollywood, they become stars because they resemble our earliest memories of "fun." Rarely do young people find dry wit and sarcasm funny. It's an acquired taste. But bold and loud always gets the belly laugh. Relatively unattractive, these men's attractiveness stems from their confidence in telling jokes and act-outs. This is why Adam Sandler was a box office star and Albert Brooks wasn't. Sandler's over-the-top broad style reminds us of the class clown. Brooks is the class president or valedictorian. Even with women, it's the loud girl who is funny. The heavyset girl who puts everyone in their place. The tomboy. The emotionally detached emo girl too. From these archetypes we get Rosie O'Donnell, Wanda Sykes, Rosanne Barr, Amy Schumer, and Ellen. They are self-deprecating, They area bit aloof. They seem ironically surprised their poor choices lead to an unfortunate outcome. They love irony and sarcasm. They tend to be sexually ambivalent (The Rosie's come to mind) or very sexually expressive and experienced (a la Amy Schumer). Only recently, has the "hot girl" become the prototype. Maybe it started with the Cameron Diaz 1990's pixy dream girl look, but now we see a shift from Rosanne Barr to Nikki Glaser or Whitney Cummings. This has opened doors for many female comics, but there is still a bias against attractive women. Is There An Advantage in Comedy To Being Less Attractive? This gets a bit controversial, but it's generally true good looking people are considered less funny. As Christopher Hitchens once added, and I'm paraphrasing, an ugly man has to develop a sense of humor if he ever dreams of getting laid. If you think about the types of stand up comics that make it, they are not attractive people. Jim Gaffigan, Sam Kinison, Richard Pryor, etc. The main reason is because no one wants to hear attractive people complain.
Plus, no one wants to hear pretty people problems. So if you find your jokes about the gym or dating hotties who won't commit bombing, then complain about a more universal problem first, then move into something that is unique to 10% of the population. Attractive comics make it work, but it takes some wiggling on stage to get there. Exceptions to the Rule Are there exceptions? Sure. Matt Rife and Dane Cook come to mind. Even Eddie Murphy would fall into this camp. Of course there are attractive female comics like Nikki Glaser, Sarah Silverman, and Ali Wong who write sharp jokes. One thing that I think pushes out female comics is the harassment and bombardment of sexual advancements they face. Many attractive female comics have complained to me that when they get opportunities, the bookers, producers, or headliners make strong moves on them. These slimeballs try to coerce women into sexual favors in exchange for stage time. This incel mentality goes from the open mic scene to the highest level of Hollywood. To quote Hamlet, "there's the rub." Women want the opportunity but don't want this repulsive expectation. And for the record, how much do these men have to really hate women to see them as purely vessels for sexual pleasure? If a comic, booker, etc. only wants sex in exchange for stage time, clearly they are ass wipes who will not do anything for you, except make you feel like less than you deserve to feel. What we found in the #MeToo movement is that this was more prevalent than even imagined. And we find that attractive males faced this as well with male executives. The recent Katt Williams interview hinted at this, and comedic actors like Terry Crews named names of agents who promised parts in exchange for more parts. This behavior is abhorrent and when seen has to be called out. How Can One's Looks Create a Window? Watching Rife today, he reminds me of Cook in 2006 when every girl I knew crushed hard. But the trajectory isn't long lasting as the audience grows up and the hot guy no longer relates to their audience. For these comics to last, it's all in the shift of complaints. Adam Sandler, the clear replacement of Shore in 1995 (Jury Duty flopped and Billy Madison and Happy Gilmore soared) grew up with his crowd, and did the brilliant move of making himself desirable by being married to Drew Barrymore, Kate Beckinsale, and Salma Hayek in his romcoms. Since beautiful women make men look better, he was able to go from goofball to dadbod. Whereas Pauley Shore, the icon of teen rebellion in the 1980s, stayed a boy and his audience passed him by. When comics rely on their current looks to keep a career going, they find themselves fading out. It's why it's important to reinvent yourself every few years. You don't want to wake up wearing the same outfit you did ten years ago. That's how you become a Gallagher. What Can You Do to Leverage Your Looks? There are ways to leverage your looks and keep your dignity. If there is a club or festival you want to get into, and you see they don't have a lot of talent that looks like you - hit them up! And just know that we are all struggling with getting booked. I literally had bookers tell me they don't need "straight white males," as if I can just pull from the SWM group fund to pay my bills. While the commitment to diversity is appreciated, it still plays out as gatekeeping no one really feels comfortable addressing. Regardless of the unfairness, we have to play the game to the best of our ability. It's really just a "moneyball" situation. Look for the opportunities out there and reach out. If you see there are places lacking people who look like you, START THERE. While most people who see their doppelgangers on the flyer hit those places up first, reach out to clubs and producers lacking representation that resembles you. It's not that they don't want certain groups - it usually stems from them having no idea where to look. Final Thoughts The entertainment industry is a rough and tumble place where the rules change every day. One day Matt Damon is the ideal male and the next it is Seth Rogan. One day Rosie O'Donnell is the queen of comedy and then it is Iliza or Tiffany Haddish. Don't believe me about Rosie? She literally was cast as Betty in The Flintstones Movie, which many considered a sex symbol cartoon. So what was "hot" today becomes "cold" tomorrow. But what never gets cold, is you moving as the chess board moves. It's reinventing yourself. It's finding universal complaints. It's creating a brand that reaches your people. And that's the beautiful part of an ugly truth.
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To get good anything you have to do it often and fail more than you succeed. Too often people are so afraid of failure they only do something in a safe place or under certain circumstances that appease their nervous system. People don't want to drive too far or spend too much money or use their time off to build their future. So instead of building an empire, they find themselves crafting out a corner of a street. Instead of getting paid legitimate money, they have to work for free or get nickeled and dimed by shady clubs. One of the reasons is because they live off the global success of others. They feel other people's success is their success, and it just simply isn't. The reason is because they live off the inspiration others feed them. Here's my basic example. If Jim Gaffigan gets a big movie role, I really can't say "if he wins, we all win," without grabbing my clown makeup. Now, if I get a movie role, then Jim might say, "It's great if an upcoming comic gets a big break - it's a win for all of us." He can say that because he's still worth millions. When I say it, I'm still worth hundreds. So remember this, success is not collective achievements that create inspiration - it's the hard work you put in creating perspiration that matters, not the inspiration. Inspiration is the drug you give yourself to be better, until it's the drug that leaves you complacent.
"You" Are Not the Accomplishments of Others Sometimes comics or celebrities have a great story about how they had $5 in their bank account when Netflix called them, and people are inspire. At the end of the day these stories are handcrafted to create empathy and a willingness to follow them. None of actually make you a better comic or better person. Too often I hear people tell me these stories "inspire" them, and then I ask, "Did you get up more?" or "Did you finally write that script?" And the answer is always no. In fact, they did less. I have been struggling with this my whole adult life. I love movies and always thought I would be a filmmaker. Instead I saw a much of movies and never made my own. I still get "inspired" when I watch a great film or awards show, but I realized, I'm just a pundit in the Hollywood wheel. Whereas, in stand up, I never really cared to see a bunch of shows, and instead, performed at a lot of open mics and bar shows. Sometimes we treat other's success like our own like the way fat dads treat their favorite football team, yelling "we won" after a game. No, Mark, "we" did nothing. They won, while you ate three types of pizza. You can't live off the accomplishments of others, feel good about it, not move forward yourself, and wake up the next day thinking you've done anything. It feels good to the you in the present, but it's cruel to you of the future. Comedy Challenge: Watch Less - Get Up More People ask me all the time if I watched so-and-so's comedy special. 90% of the time I say no. They go, "How? It's so good?" Because I realized early on, if you have great shared experiences, you live off them instead of feeding yourself. Also, let's say your favorite comic writes a great joke. You can't use it. You can't copy it. In fact, if you write your own version - it won't be as good. Tim Burton once told an interviewer he doesn't watch other movies while making his own, so he isn't "influenced" by it. So when I watch comedy, I watch people the opposite of me. I watch old Albert Brooks and current Eddie Pepitone. Because I'm not doing what they do. But their commitment to the bit is the key takeaway. I don't watch a lot, but when I seek comedy, I seek out them. Watch More Bad Comedy, Not Good Comedy When I was starting out, I would go to Flappers Main Room and laugh at the great comics like Jimmy Dore, Dan Gabriel, and Melissa Villasenor. But that wasn't helping me. They are performing well crafted jokes to fans. So I started watching the YooHoo room amateur show. I gained a lot of knowledge and ten pounds eating pizza every week. Watching half baked premises, punchline-lacking jokes, and nervous demeanors actually became a real learning experience. Watching good comedy makes you laugh, but watching bad comedy makes you a better comic. Let me repeat that: Watching good comedy makes you laugh, but watching bad comedy makes you a better comic. Here's the theory: If you watch good comedy, what do you learn? Maybe be confident, have a punchline every 20 seconds, and be vulnerable. But those comics have 15-45 minutes up there to get into a grove. Most comics get five minutes. Watch how young comics squander their time. Watch how they don't get to their first laugh for a minute or 90 seconds (if at all). Watch how the crowd feels the tension of sitting in a silence that never gets broken. Then think to yourself, "I won't let that happen." And start writing great jokes. You'll find yourself forcing yourself to NOT be that awful open micer. If you watch a great comic ramble, you'll just think, "I'm just doing what Chappelle does" and never get better. My Inspiration v. Perspiration Challenge Okay, so let's say you think you want to go watch your favorite comic or support a show or watch a comedy special. Don't. Stop. Don't do it. Instead, go get up yourself. Go write your new jokes or work on your content or script. When you get the itch to watch, getup instead. Trust me, the headliner doesn't watch you. They're too busy getting ready. Trevor Wallace isn't interested in your Instagram Reels, because he's building his own empire. Stop watching movie, if you want to make movies. Trust me on this. I see so many comics who never "made it" or never got what they wanted because they're too busy taking pictures, watching shows, and trying to be PART of the show instead of BEING THE SHOW. Final Thoughts I understand the desire to watch comedy to be inspired, but I would argue that only works if you are not a comic. Sure, you can tell me that it inspired you seeing your friends on stage, but inspired you to do what? To watch more comedy? When I watch a sports film like Hoosiers, it inspires me to be better at comedy, buy reminding me to never give up when the odds are against me. It doesn't inspire me to play basketball. Watching comedy specials doesn't lead to you getting a special. Watching cooking shows doesn't make you more full. And watching porn doesn't lead to more sex. If you listen to your favorite podcaster (car trips only - no sitting at home listening), you'll hear them say "I heard that movie was good" or "I need to see them on stage for myself" or "I want to catch that." It's because they are too busy doing "it" to sit around watching "it." I see a lot of movies, but I go in the spaces between my comedy and writing and TV show pitching time. 2pm is a great movie watching time. 8pm is for performing. If you want a productive 2024, remember you will reap what you sow. Sow into watching, you'll find more time to watch. Sow into doing, and you just might wake up doing more. The biggest complaint I get from comics is trying to navigate the Los Angeles comedy scene. They feel that they keep running in circles, while accomplishing nothing. And they aren't wrong. The LA comedy scene is a showcase format that encourages sleazy bringer producers, ego heavy bookers, and gatekeeping strategies that make you feel hopeless. You are not crazy - the entire scene feels and is a pyramid scheme. I would know, as I lived it on both sides of the coin. I once was a bringer of guests, and then I worked behind the scenes for 4 years at Flappers in Burbank. So let me tell you, it's a jungle out there. Here is a breakdown of each LA Club and what their audition system looks like. The Comedy Store The Comedy Store is one of the longest running clubs in the world. Before stand up comedy was a thing, there was The Store. The greats started there and became stars because founder Mitzi Shore would showcase them in front of TV's biggest producers. Jay Leno, David Letterman, and Joe Rogan all started there. The Store also is known for their Roast Battles and three rooms: The Main Room, The Original Room, and The Belly Room. The auditioning process is pretty simple. On Friday between 12pm and 1pm you email potluck@comedystore.com your name (NO tape, website, etc.) and then on Monday you find out if you made the 16 person lineup. You do 3 minutes in the Original Room, and you hope someone important saw you. Newsflash, no one does. If you want to get into the mix faster, participating in Roast Battle is the real trick. By showcasing your ability to make fun of your peers, you will find a potential way in. The only problem with The Comedy Store is that it's filled with awful bringer shows ran by scum. These NON PASSED wannabe comics convince newer comics to convince their friends to give them money, all while being abusive to new comics through threatening texts. These producers are scum. Rats. Pieces of trash who prey on the dreams of artists. So why does The Store let them use their room? Because Money. And newer comics don't realize the scam until it is too late. Stay away. I have heard too many comics tell me it hurts thinking how they thought being a bringer would help. It doesn't. The Laugh Factory With the owner of the Laugh Factory getting up in age, the club has gone through more bookers than The Store has gone through bringer producers. While the brand has lost it's luster, it still provides the most ridiculous audition process in Los Angeles. On Tuesdays you wait in line from 1pm until 5pm, hoping to be one of the first 10-15 comics. You will do 2 minutes in front of someone, who might tell you to come back for a 5 minute spot at the same open mic down the road. There are comics still waiting to hear they got passed who started a decade ago, but because the rotating door of bookers is such a nightmare, unless you get on the approved list during the right window of opportunity, you might find yourself still waiting. Your best chance of getting booked there is reaching out to Chocolate Sundaes, their Sunday show that showcases 3 comics, with a 15-18 month waiting list. Yes. I wrote that correctly. Over a year. It's a great show though. I did it in 2018. But it leads nowhere. It's just a feather in your cap. The Laugh Factory has less bringers, as comics have to be approved to perform, but don't feel crazy if communication seems impossible to understand. The club has so many passed comics, they don't need anymore. The Improv Easily, the classiest and most accessible of the three big clubs, The Hollywood Improv was started by Bud Friedman at the same time as The Store. The club has so many paid regulars with amazing credits, it's almost impossible to get stage time. There are around 14 "development" spots a week for young comics passed by the booker, all while there being hundreds of young up and coming comics eligible for those spots. The Improv does have open mic bucket list auditions called Lab Work on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, when the booker will stop by to watch. If she likes you, you might get a 5 minute spot to showcase your best set. This is easily the best opportunity for any comic at any stage. If all that work sounds too hard, your best bet is to produce a comedy show there. Start the show somewhere else and make it a success and eventually try to run it monthly in the Lab (the little room) to get a monthly spot. Besides that, The Improv just doesn't need you. The place is friendly to comics, due to the large bar lobby and open mic opportunities with Lab Work. The staff is always cool too. But it's just so busy and oversaturated there that becoming a regular is hard. You could try getting a door security job or bartender job there, but even then, you have to be really good at comedy to move into the development spots. The HaHa Comedy Club No one knows how to get booked here. You shouldn't worry about it. It's just a dump requiring comics to bring 5 people to every show, with random drop-ins you can't advertise because they show up after the show starts. These are the shows that wear down your friends and burn you out from worrying more about your friends finding parking than you getting your set ready. The Comedy Chateau The newest club on the market, this North Hollywood club has a main and small room and is the only bringer club offering it's main stage to newbies. Auditions are every Sunday at 4pm, and by 4:05pm you will feel your soul leaving your body. The club is ran by Felix who puts himself on every show with his guitar to sing about his dick and other bodily fluids. If you drag friends here, they'll have to sit through that every time. The Chateau runs 20 person showcases, where each comic has to bring a certain number of guests, using a comp code to track, or they get knocked off the show, and the owner takes up their unused time. If you noticed, they never have "headliner weekends" where a big name does 3-4 shows over a weekend. Some celebrity comics use the bringer crowds to test upcoming Netflix material, but generally, the shows are populated by newbies. Traditionally, shows start 45 minutes late and your friends will have to buy more food and drink to get through the evening. No one is getting discovered there. You don't need them. The Ice House The legendary Ice House in Pasadena is currently under new ownership and are still trying to figure out their business model. There are no auditions as of yet, and the only shows are independent producer shows. If you know someone on a show there, ask them what the producer needs to be on their show. Flappers Comedy Club & Restaurant Flappers is a cross between all the clubs above. You get the big names like Kevin Hart and Jay Leno. You also get the showcase shows with the newbies asked to bring. And there are independent producer shows. There are comedy contests with cash prizes. And open mics daily. While the open mics are either $8 for 5 minutes, or $5 PLUS a one item minimum, Flappers is still the only comedy club with regular mics. You might have to mortgage your house or skip a car payment to go often, but you can get up. Auditions are every Wednesday. You do 2 minutes in front of the booker who then gives unsolicited feedback on your set. If you are really new, he'll ask you to bring people. You'll say yes, and then show up to a maybe half filled crowd and do 5 minutes, then you'll be asked if you want to buy a tape for $35. When I ran the school I worked hard to help students fill the room with lower ticket prices and tape discounts. The booker and owner were always upset by my "comic first" mentality. If you are a comic 3-5 years in, the booker will tell you that he can't use you because you don't bring anyone, and he might even say cruel things about your act. He's told comics I know: "With your act, you might make it to the middle." "I don't remember anything about you, you might as well talk about strawberries and cream." "You're annoying. Don't hang out here." A regular Ted Lasso. You might even cry after when you realize all that bringing you did in your first few years meant nothing to them, and you built up no goodwill at all. So if you like feeling like crap and crying, Flappers audition is the perfect club for you! The booker also gives a terrible speech before auditions about how you shouldn't be an asshole, and then treats you like an asshole. It's a meta experience. I used to sit in on auditions and talk about how the club works, but the booker asked me to stop because I was "too positive." If you are an established headliner with access to the club, you can maybe email avails, but the booker won't email you back. Oh, if you do get a YooHoo room spot, the booker will give himself 5-10 minutes on the show, guitar free thankfully, and will talk about his small penis or how he wants to kill himself. So expect your friends to ask if he's okay. He's not. But just say he is so they will come back if you plan to as well. Overall Thoughts on the LA Comedy Scene All of this may sound frustrating, and it is. That's why it is important to remember two things: 1. The Store, Laugh Factory, and Improv won't need you until you're famous. And that's okay. 2. Flappers, HaHa, and The Chateau need you way more than you need them. Always remember that. While club spots are fun in the moment, the build up and aftermath are exhausting. Plus, when you think about how much "ring kissing" you have to do, do you really want your friends giving their money to these places, when you know they'll dump you ASAP? There are plenty of great bar shows, road gigs, open mics, and other venues where you can grow your act, meet great comics to network with, and still feel good about yourself. Too often, comics get discouraged because they view the clubs like high school seniors view college. The clubs will not make you famous. That's why you want to work on your jokes in environments that aren't there to suck you dry. The Fourth Wall, Corbin Bowl, and Third Wheel Comedy all have opportunities you can use and network with the same comics you would have met at the smaller clubs. No reason to get into the pyramid scheme of bringing if you can meet the same people on your terms. Keep your head up and know that no club defines you! You are the captain of your comedy ship. So sail on! Too often comedians take a lone wolf approach to their stand up career (or career in general). They think they can make it on their own without having to rely on others. And while being on stage can feel like an isolating experience, the in-between-moments are where your career is truly made. Your network is always going to be your strongest resource in creating and taking advantage of opportunities. When starting out, your network is simply friends, family, and co-workers. But over time you have to create a circle of comics you can engage with. Don't be afraid to reach out and see who is able to connect. Here are a few pointers in building that network - for comics or anyone looking for an edge.
Build a Group at Your Level One big mistake younger comics make is trying to jump into an established comic circle. They want to join a group that already made it, hoping that success can rub off on them. That is the wrong attitude because it doesn't include the primary element of a strong comic circle network: Trust. You have to build your network based on people more or less at the same level as you. Come up together. Build a network of people you can trust. If you join a group that is way ahead of you on the social ladder, they might dump you because there is no foundation. You never went through the battles together. By finding people at your speed and level, you will match energies and be able to support each other. If you are doing open mics, connect with open micers. If you are featuring and headlining B clubs, then find other comics at that level who can recommend you to similar venues. You just don't want to be in a place where your circle isn't able to help you because the gigs they do are too small or too big for where you are in your career. Get a Mentor I write this knowing that a lot of people confuse what a mentor's purpose is. Mentor's are NOT people who just give you access to what they built. They help guide you through the steps. Maybe they keep you accountable. Maybe they suggest a few venues for you to reach out to. But it is NOT their job to book your year of shows. I've talked to a lot of headliners who have comics call them up saying, "When you going to book some shows so we can get back on the road?" That is not the right attitude, by the way. Mentors should be just a little a head of you too. Too often comics try to get mentors who are way ahead of them, and they really cannot help them. The advice becomes too general or impossible to execute correctly. A good comedy mentor should be where you want to be within 5 years. They can take you on the road, but in reality, they should be more of a coffee and dinner pal. And do not ask someone to be your mentor. It might put too much pressure on them. Just see if you can hang out with them. Support their shows. Give some value, even if its just friendship. Then feel free to ask a few questions. But once it looks like you are trying to just copy them, they will see you as a palmer, just trying to get what you can, instead of building a real relationship built on mutual interests and trust. Hang Out After the Show The best way to build a network is to enjoy "the hang" before and after a show. The comics who come late and leave early tend to be the same ones who stay in the same place years later, begging for guest spots on unpaid shows. It's in the hanging out you start to see which comics you vibe with. Sometimes you'll see a comic on stage and you will assume you two will get along well. Then you hang out and its awkward from the start. But had you just hung out at the comic's table, you would have realized that you make great "co-workers" but not exactly great "hang-outers." By the way, I just made up a word. You're Welcome. Engage with Fans I get it. You're an introvert. You don't want to talk to "those people." You don't want them to say "Here' a joke you can use..." or "put that in your little skits." But just know that your best network is your fan base. It is your fan base that will create your financial success as well. If you just have relationships with comics and bookers, you limit earning potential. But when you build a fan base, you can create door deals and not rely on the clubs. You can produce your own shows and do your thing. This also applies to social media. Find time to engage by liking comments and responding to DM's. Once you get too many, you can back off, but I promise you - a little fan engagement can be what builds your brand faster than you expect. Final Thoughts Regardless of where you are in your journey, you need a support system and network. This goes for acting, writing, sports, etc. No man or woman is an island. So maybe in 2024 you take the biggest leap of vulnerability yet, reach out, and build an inner circle. 1. Dream Scenario Nicolas Cage gives the best performance of recent memory as a regular guy who becomes famous for being in people’s dreams until it all goes wrong. A brilliant film is every way. 2. The Holdovers Paul Giamatti, Davine Joy Randolph, and Dominic Sessa are the ensemble of the year in Alexander Payne’s new Christmas classic. 3. Oppenheimer Christopher Nolan’s opus is the Hollywood studio film of the year. A masterpiece political thriller, where the true tension stems from the internal battle to create something so drastic it changes the world and our protagonist. 4. The Iron Claw Sean Durkin’s ode to territory wrestling, the Von Erich wrestling family, and true independent cinema is the surprise of the year. Zac Efron has arrived. 5. Theater Camp The funniest comedy of the year is a mockumentary about a struggling theater camp filled with big laughs and a brilliant satirical musical worth applauding! 6. Poor Things A true visionary feast for the eyes. Emma Stone is a 30 year old woman given the brain of a baby, and forced to deal with the patriarchy from a fresh angle. This is what brave filmmaking is all about. 7. American Fiction Another satire makes my list. This one attacking well meaning white liberals who think they know what being black is all about. Jefferson Cord writes and directs a near perfect film. 8. Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 3 James Gunn wraps up one of the best science fiction/comic book trilogies of all time. This is the Star Wars Kathleen Kennedy couldn’t deliver. A funny, exciting, heart breaking, joyous film that will be cherished for years. 9. Freud’s Last Session A rare intellectual film filled with ideas and theories about life, death, free will, God and sex. In this fan fiction about the meeting of Sigmund Freud and CS Lewis, the story is about facing fears and fighting for truth. In the vein of Doubt and The Two Popes, this is the film I hope you’ll seek out. 10. Super Mario Brothers The most pure fun I had all year in the movies. While not inherently deep, this animated rollercoaster of a film digs deep into 40 years of nostalgia and gives us the Mario Brothers film us 80’s kids always wanted. Runners Up: Here are some films that tied for 11th. To be honest, I could have put any of them at number 10 and felt good about my list. All of them were funny, smart, and wildly creative in their styles. The Color Purple Past Lives Godzilla Minus One May December Air TMNT: Mutant Mania Others worth watching: These are the more experimental or niche films that will have both fans and haters, but I really enjoyed. This is a mixture of documentaries, true stories, and classic Hollywood tales of woe and redemption. What I can promise, is none of these films will bore you. Defending My Life Blackberry Saltburn Dumb Money The Burial Next Goal Wins Creed III |
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